When I was about a year old, I almost died.
Apparently, I had managed to get away from my entire family (they were all gathered in the living room) and I made my way to a bedroom window and proceeded to climb out.
Let me set the scene. This was in El Giza, Egypt about 50 years ago... there were no screens on the windows and we were all at my taeta's house. She lived on the 4th floor in a large apartment
building.
My brother Fady, who just happened to be walking past the bedroom door, noticed that my arms were outside the open window and my body was tilting forward towards the street. While most kids would have panicked and screamed, he very wisely ran towards me without making a sound so as to not startle
me. (This was incredibly smart thinking considering he was only 8 years old at the time). Once he got a hold of my legs, he grabbed me and pulled me in.
Had the Grace of God and Fady Not Intervened,
I Surely Would Not Be Around to Write This
Although this incident frequently crosses my mind, I don't thank my brother nearly enough. Although he never brings it up, I feel indebted to him. I want him to know just how much I appreciate him and what he did for me. (Fady, I hope you're reading this!
:)
I also have a feeling of gratitude for people who have had a big impact on my life: my parents, siblings, cousins and certain relatives, teachers, mentors, priests and clergy, and so many
others.
You probably feel the same way, but we don't pause nearly enough to let them know just how appreciated they are.
Another group of people that often goes unappreciated:
Your Customers or Clients
Not only is it good practice to show appreciation to those who help you make a living, but it is also good business.
One practice I follow is to select two clients every day and personally call them on the phone (not by text). I thank them for their business and let them know how much I appreciate them. You'd be amazed at the
response!
I don't ask for any new business -- just remind them that I'm here if they ever need anything. Often, THEY are the ones to turn the conversation to business and their business needs.
All this because of a heartfelt thank you. We don't say it nearly enough.
Saying it is good. Showing it is even better.
